Marriage
The Sacrament of Matrimony is a sacred covenant in which a man and woman enter into a lifelong union of love and fidelity, mirroring Christ’s love for His Church. At St. Mary’s of the Lake, we are honored to walk with couples as they prepare to celebrate this beautiful sacrament.
Planning Your Wedding
Couples who wish to be married at St. Mary’s should contact the Pastor at least six months in advance of their desired wedding date. This time allows for thoughtful preparation, scheduling, and participation in marriage preparation programs designed to help you grow in faith and strengthen your relationship.
Wedding Guidelines
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The Rite of Marriage may not be celebrated on Good Friday or Holy Saturday.
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Within the Diocese of Syracuse, weddings are not permitted on Sundays or after 2:00 PM on Saturdays, except for serious reasons and with written permission from the Bishop or his delegate, along with the consent of the pastor.
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At St. Mary’s, weddings are not scheduled after 6:00 PM on Fridays.
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The proper place for a Catholic marriage is the parish church, unless special ecumenical or interfaith circumstances apply and permission has been granted by the Bishop or his delegate.
Please note that ceremonies held outside of a Catholic church—such as at a private venue, park, beach, or hall—and officiated by a suspended or unaffiliated priest are not canonically valid. While such unions may be recognized by civil law, they are not recognized by the Church and would require convalidation (a formal recognition of the marriage by the Church).
Beginning the Journey
To begin planning your wedding or to discuss the Sacrament of Matrimony, please contact the Parish Office at (315) 685-5083 to schedule a meeting with Father or our Pastorial Assoicate. We look forward to helping you prepare for a faith-filled and joy-filled marriage rooted in God’s love.